Mistake #2 Being available to everyone, without structure that protects your energy

digitalemelda · 2025-05-20T05:42:12+00:00

**In our last #bigmoneymemo conversation, we talked about Mistake 1: Not Defining a Widespread Identity** …and why women with real depth need more than just a niche — they need a brand that reflects their full, multidimensional value if they want premium positioning and natural income flow. If you missed that one, go back and read it — especially if your brand feels too narrow, your clients feel too familiar, or your next-level vision feels out of reach. **Because today’s mistake?** This is the one I see even the most seasoned women make — and it’s costing them authority, energy, and aligned income. **💼 Mistake 2: Being Available to Everyone Without Boundaries Based on Commitment** Let’s talk about energy leaks. One of the biggest mistakes I see women making—especially those who are naturally intuitive, giving, and brilliant at what they do—is being *too accessible* to people at all levels of commitment. They respond to every DM. They entertain half-ready clients. They stay “open” for business at all hours—energetically and literally. And then they wonder why they’re tired, underpaid, and still being asked to “hop on a quick call.” Here’s the truth no one tells you: **Availability without structure is not generosity. It’s self-abandonment disguised as service.** Your business cannot scale sustainably if your energy is being pulled by people who haven’t made an energetic or financial commitment to your work. Inside my *CEO Money, NOT Coins* framework, I teach clients how to restructure their visibility, messaging, and offer stack so that their access becomes intentional—not reactive. Because here’s what happens when you build your brand around commitment levels, not just audience size: – You stop answering questions from people who aren’t invested. – You stop diluting your brilliance to meet people halfway. – You create clear boundaries between your free, low-ticket, and premium containers—without guilt. This is not about being unavailable. It’s about being *selectively accessible* in a way that reflects your value and protects your genius. Let me put it this way: > You’re not for everyone—and your brand should prove it. The women I work with inside *Woman in Millions* often realize they’ve been overdelivering in the wrong direction. They’ve been operating like a public utility when they should be positioned like a premium asset. Here’s what I always remind them: > Big money responds to clear boundaries, not blurred lines. You don't need more clients pulling at you from all directions. You need a structure that *filters by energy, access, and intent.* And that's exactly what I’m teaching inside my upcoming masterclass, **CEO Money, NOT Coins** where I’ll show you how to: – Create powerful demand without chasing – Structure your visibility to filter for aligned clients – Protect your peace *while* increasing your profit 🖤 Details are coming soon, so stay close. Your days of being “on call” for the culture are numbered. xo, Digital Emelda *Market in Heels™ — make bank from your genius*

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